This is a problem many women in the world face today. I wanted to take some time to highlight this particular eating disorder that strikes more women (and some men) than we can possibly imagine and is a lifetime problem that others may never notice because unlike other eating disorders, such as Anorexia ... there isn't a horrific tell-tale obvious sign.
There is lots of information surrounding this particular issue. If you know someone or think someone is bulimic, please remember that it is generally an extremely personal and private issue and take time to discuss it with the person (if you feel comfortable enough to) in private. Please do not shame, blame or guilt the person for any reason, it is already a self destructive habit that doesn't need additional fuel for the fire. Remember to lend support, they will probably need it more than you know. Thanks.
Information taken from - http://www.womenshealth.gov/publications/our-publications/fact-sheet/bulimia-nervosa.cfm
What is bulimia?
- Making yourself throw up
- Taking laxatives (pills or liquids that speed up the movement of food through your body and lead to a bowel movement)
- Fear gaining weight
- Want desperately to lose weight
- Are very unhappy with their body size and shape
Who becomes bulimic?
What causes bulimia?
- Culture. Women in the U.S. are under constant pressure to fit a certain ideal of beauty. Seeing images of flawless, thin females everywhere makes it hard for women to feel good about their bodies.
- Families. If you have a mother or sister with bulimia, you are more likely to also have bulimia. Parents who think looks are important, diet themselves, or criticize their children's bodies are more likely to have a child with bulimia.
- Life changes or stressful events. Traumatic events (like rape), as well as stressful things (like starting a new job), can lead to bulimia.
- Personality traits. A person with bulimia may not like herself, hate the way she looks, or feel hopeless. She may be very moody, have problems expressing anger, or have a hard time controlling impulsive behaviors.
- Biology. Genes, hormones, and chemicals in the brain may be factors in developing bulimia.
What are signs of bulimia?
- Using diet pills, or taking pills to urinate or have a bowel movement
- Going to the bathroom all the time after eating (to throw up)
- Exercising a lot, even in bad weather or when hurt or tired
- Swollen cheeks or jaw area
- Calluses or scrapes on the knuckles (if using fingers to induce vomiting)
- Teeth that look clear
- Broken blood vessels in the eyes
- Depression
- Anxiety
- Substance abuse problems
What happens to someone who has bulimia?
Can someone with bulimia get better?
It may be safe for young people to be treated with antidepressants. However, drug companies who make antidepressants are required to post a "black box" warning label on the medication. A "black box" warning is the most serious type of warning on prescription medicines.
It may be possible that antidepressants make children, adolescents, and young adults more likely to think about suicide or commit suicide.
The FDA offers the latest information, including which drugs are included in this warning and danger signs to look for, on their website athttp://www.fda.gov.
- Receive nutritional advice and psychotherapy, especially cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT)
- Be prescribed medicine
Can women who had bulimia in the past still get pregnant?
How does bulimia affect pregnancy?
- Miscarriage
- High blood pressure in the mother
- Baby isn't born alive
- Baby tries to come out with feet or bottom first
- Birth by C-section
- Baby is born early
- Low birth weight
- Birth defects, such as blindness or mental retardation
- Problems breastfeeding
- Depression in the mother after the baby is born
- Diabetes in the mother during pregnancy
What should I do if I think someone I know has bulimia?
- Set a time to talk. Set aside a time to talk privately with your friend. Make sure you talk in a quiet place where you won't be distracted.
- Tell your friend about your concerns. Be honest. Tell your friend about your worries about his or her eating or exercising habits. Tell your friend you are concerned and that you think these things may be a sign of a problem that needs professional help.
- Ask your friend to talk to a professional. Your friend can talk to a counselor or doctor who knows about eating issues. Offer to help your friend find a counselor or doctor and make an appointment, and offer to go with him or her to the appointment.
- Avoid conflicts. If your friend won't admit that he or she has a problem, don't push. Be sure to tell your friend you are always there to listen if he or she wants to talk.
- Don't place shame, blame, or guilt on your friend. Don't say, "You just need to eat." Instead, say things like, "I'm concerned about you because you won't eat breakfast or lunch." Or, "It makes me afraid to hear you throwing up."
- Don't give simple solutions. Don't say, "If you'd just stop, then things would be fine!"
- Let your friend know that you will always be there no matter what.
