Thursday, August 15, 2013

Information: BULIMIA

This is a problem many women in the world face today.  I wanted to take some time to highlight this particular eating disorder that strikes more women (and some men) than we can possibly imagine and is a lifetime problem that others may never notice because unlike other eating disorders, such as Anorexia ... there isn't a horrific tell-tale obvious sign.

There is lots of information surrounding this particular issue.  If you know someone or think someone is bulimic, please remember that it is generally an extremely personal and private issue and take time to discuss it with the person (if you feel comfortable enough to) in private.  Please do not shame, blame or guilt the person for any reason, it is already a self destructive habit that doesn't need additional fuel for the fire.  Remember to lend support, they will probably need it more than you know.  Thanks.

Information taken from - http://www.womenshealth.gov/publications/our-publications/fact-sheet/bulimia-nervosa.cfm

What is bulimia?

Bulimia nervosa (buh-LEE-me-ah nur-VOH-suh), often called bulimia, is a type of eating disorder. A person with bulimia eats a lot of food in a short amount of time (binging) and then tries to prevent weight gain by getting rid of the food (purging). Purging might be done by:
  • Making yourself throw up
  • Taking laxatives (pills or liquids that speed up the movement of food through your body and lead to a bowel movement)
A person with bulimia feels he or she cannot control the amount of food eaten. Also, bulimics might exercise a lot, eat very little or not at all, or take pills to pass urine often to prevent weight gain.
Unlike anorexia, people with bulimia can fall within the normal range for their age and weight. But like people with anorexia, bulimics:
  • Fear gaining weight
  • Want desperately to lose weight
  • Are very unhappy with their body size and shape

Who becomes bulimic?

Many people think that eating disorders affect only young, upper-class white females. It is true that most bulimics are women (around 85-90 percent). But bulimia affects people from all walks of life, including males, women of color, and even older women.  It is not known for sure whether African American, Latina, Asian/Pacific Islander, and American Indian and Alaska Native people develop eating disorders because American culture values thin people. People with different cultural backgrounds may develop eating disorders because it's hard to adapt to a new culture (a theory called "culture clash"). The stress of trying to live in two different cultures may cause some minorities to develop their eating disorders.

What causes bulimia?

Bulimia is more than just a problem with food. A binge can be triggered by dieting, stress, or uncomfortable emotions, such as anger or sadness. Purging and other actions to prevent weight gain are ways for people with bulimia to feel more in control of their lives and ease stress and anxiety. There is no single known cause of bulimia, but there are some factors that may play a part.
  • Culture. Women in the U.S. are under constant pressure to fit a certain ideal of beauty. Seeing images of flawless, thin females everywhere makes it hard for women to feel good about their bodies.
  • Families. If you have a mother or sister with bulimia, you are more likely to also have bulimia. Parents who think looks are important, diet themselves, or criticize their children's bodies are more likely to have a child with bulimia. 
  • Life changes or stressful events. Traumatic events (like rape), as well as stressful things (like starting a new job), can lead to bulimia.
  • Personality traits. A person with bulimia may not like herself, hate the way she looks, or feel hopeless. She may be very moody, have problems expressing anger, or have a hard time controlling impulsive behaviors.
  • Biology. Genes, hormones, and chemicals in the brain may be factors in developing bulimia.

What are signs of bulimia?

A person with bulimia may be thin, overweight, or have a normal weight. Also, bulimic behavior, such as throwing up, is often done in private because the person with bulimia feels shame or disgust. This makes it hard to know if someone has bulimia. But there are warning signs to look out for. Someone with bulimia may use extreme measures to lose weight by:
  • Using diet pills, or taking pills to urinate or have a bowel movement
  • Going to the bathroom all the time after eating (to throw up)
  • Exercising a lot, even in bad weather or when hurt or tired
Someone with bulimia may show signs of throwing up, such as:
  • Swollen cheeks or jaw area
  • Calluses or scrapes on the knuckles (if using fingers to induce vomiting)
  • Teeth that look clear
  • Broken blood vessels in the eyes
People with bulimia often have other mental health conditions, including:
  • Depression
  • Anxiety
  • Substance abuse problems
Someone with bulimia may also have a distorted body image, shown by thinking she or he is fat, hating her or his body, and fearing weight gain.
Bulimia can also cause someone to not act like her or himself. She or he may be moody or sad, or may not want to go out with friends.

What happens to someone who has bulimia?

Bulimia can be very harmful to the body. Look at the picture to find out how bulimia affects your health.
Diagram of how bulumia affect the body

Can someone with bulimia get better?

Is it safe for young people to take antidepressants for bulimia?

It may be safe for young people to be treated with antidepressants. However, drug companies who make antidepressants are required to post a "black box" warning label on the medication. A "black box" warning is the most serious type of warning on prescription medicines.
It may be possible that antidepressants make children, adolescents, and young adults more likely to think about suicide or commit suicide.
The FDA offers the latest information, including which drugs are included in this warning and danger signs to look for, on their website athttp://www.fda.gov.
Yes. Someone with bulimia can get better. A health care team of doctors, nutritionists, and therapists will help the patient recover. They will help the person learn healthy eating patterns and cope with their thoughts and feelings. Treatment for bulimia uses a combination of options. Whether or not the treatment works depends on the patient.
To stop a person from binging and purging, a doctor may recommend the patient:
  • Receive nutritional advice and psychotherapy, especially cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT)
  • Be prescribed medicine
CBT is a form of psychotherapy that focuses on the important role of thinking in how we feel and what we do. CBT that has been tailored to treat bulimia has shown to be effective in changing binging and purging behavior, and eating attitudes. Therapy for a person with bulimia may be one-on-one with a therapist or group-based.
Some antidepressants, such as fluoxetine (Prozac), which is the only medication approved by the U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA) for treating bulimia, may help patients who also have depression and/or anxiety. It also appears to help reduce binge-eating and purging behavior, reduces the chance of relapse, and improves eating attitudes. ("Relapse" means to get sick again, after feeling well for a while.)

Can women who had bulimia in the past still get pregnant?

Active bulimia can cause a woman to miss her period sometimes. Or, she may never get her period. If this happens, she usually does not ovulate. This makes it hard to get pregnant. Women who have recovered from bulimia have a better chance of getting pregnant once their monthly cycle is normal. If you're having a hard time getting pregnant, see your doctor.

How does bulimia affect pregnancy?

If a woman with active bulimia gets pregnant, these problems may result:
  • Miscarriage
  • High blood pressure in the mother
  • Baby isn't born alive
  • Baby tries to come out with feet or bottom first
  • Birth by C-section
  • Baby is born early
  • Low birth weight
  • Birth defects, such as blindness or mental retardation
  • Problems breastfeeding
  • Depression in the mother after the baby is born
  • Diabetes in the mother during pregnancy
If a woman takes laxatives or diuretics during pregnancy, her baby could be harmed. These things take away nutrients and fluids from a woman before they are able to feed and nourish the baby. It is possible they may lead to birth defects as well, particularly if they are used regularly.

What should I do if I think someone I know has bulimia?

If someone you know is showing signs of bulimia, you may be able to help.
  1. Set a time to talk. Set aside a time to talk privately with your friend.  Make sure you talk in a quiet place where you won't be distracted.
  2. Tell your friend about your concerns. Be honest. Tell your friend about your worries about his or her eating or exercising habits. Tell your friend you are concerned and that you think these things may be a sign of a problem that needs professional help.
  3. Ask your friend to talk to a professional. Your friend can talk to a counselor or doctor who knows about eating issues. Offer to help your friend find a counselor or doctor and make an appointment, and offer to go with him or her to the appointment.
  4. Avoid conflicts. If your friend won't admit that he or she has a problem, don't push. Be sure to tell your friend you are always there to listen if he or she wants to talk.
  5. Don't place shame, blame, or guilt on your friend.  Don't say, "You just need to eat." Instead, say things like, "I'm concerned about you because you won't eat breakfast or lunch." Or, "It makes me afraid to hear you throwing up."
  6. Don't give simple solutions. Don't say, "If you'd just stop, then things would be fine!"
  7. Let your friend know that you will always be there no matter what.
Adapted from "What Should I Say? Tips for Talking to a Friend Who May Be Struggling with an Eating Disorder" from the National Eating Disorders Association.

Wednesday, August 14, 2013

Venting ...

I don't really have a title for what I'm about to write.  I just know that I need to vent somehow, somewhere.

Why do people feel like they have to do things to other people?  To upset them?  Because they think that their supposed victims/targets will care enough to be upset by their action?  In my youth ... my impetuous youth, I would say that would have been an inevitability upsetted.  In my 30s ... I'd say no.  I've learned to cut people out, and it sounds terrible to say, but just not to care that much anymore.

It's mostly comical to think that there are other people out there who are 30 something going on 13.  It's childish and they derive some sort of sick pleasure (only for themselves might I add) in thinking that they are causing others anguish.  It's mostly ridiculous and utterly deluded, but ... carry on.

Monday, July 29, 2013

Getting SOFT. WTF?!

All right y'all.

Bad things happen in 3s right?  I think my official 3rd just happened.

1. Strained my foot. (out 2 weeks)

2. Threw out my back. (out 1-2 weeks)

and ...

3. Got royally embarrassed and had my ass handed to me running the perimeter of Central Park. (This saturday 7/27/13).


You know what I think of that????  Ooooohhhhhhh HEEEELLLLLLLL NAAAAHHHHHH!!!!! >(


I've been letting myself talk me into taking it easy waaaayyyy too much and this is inexcusable.  I can't keep telling other people to stop making excuses for not being able to SHOW up at the gym when I'm the one doing it.  I'm very disappointed in my personal workouts these days.

So let's talk about this.

Every person who makes working out a LIFESTYLE change, will inevitably come across a day when you lose your motivation.  So the question then is, how do you get it back, right?  It's a good question, and it's in these particular moments that it's easiest to walk away from this lifestyle and there have been many before me and after me that will and have.  So how do you not?  It's hard when you no longer feel the desire, the motivation, the need to get to the gym ... to push yourself, to work harder, to get out of B.E.D.!!!!

Listen, this is when friends are the most important and having a support group at the gym.  While we should be capable of working out individually, I find that it's equally as important to have a group of people who not only SUPPORT you but also hold you ACCOUNTABLE.  There are so many of us (especially New Yorkers) who have the SUPERMAN/SUPERWOMAN mentality.  But we are, inherently, creatures that crave interactions with others, it's dialed into our DNA.  To seek companionship, friendships.  So if you're feeling unmotivated, seek out your friends at the gym, have them hold you accountable for showing up!  It's better if you do something rather than NOTHING.  Most importantly, remember that this is just a phase, a part of the learning process of this particular lifestyle and that like most things in this world, shall too pass.

Me?  I've made some commitments and changes to ensure that I get back on track and I got 2 words for my current lack of motivation, my laziness ... GAME ON!!!


Tuesday, July 23, 2013

But he said I could do ALL things ....

Philippians 4:13

Now for all of those who know me ... you know I'm NOT religious, rather ... I would consider myself SPIRITUAL.  I am well read in the bible, though I would never confess to being an expert.  All things aside ... He said that I could do ALL things through Christ who strengthens me ... but these days I'm finding that bearing unreasonably, ignorant people ... UNBEARABLE.

Maybe because, I've had to unmercifully withhold my backlash towards this person for the last 5 years and 15 days.  The trouncing I would release upon this person would be ... well...

Anyways, I just want to put it out there, that whatever your motivations in life are ... please in all your getting, get understanding!

Proverbs 3:13
Proverbs 4:5
Proverbs 4:7
Proverbs 19:8

Make sure that you have all the facts and that you understand the topic, before you start mouthing off.  It's not that difficult, take some time to make sure you are properly and correctly informed before you start spewing false accusations and lies.

This concludes my soapbox session.  Thanks for listening =)

Friday, July 19, 2013

Seriously?!

I posted only ONE time in 2012?!  I think i'm going for a record! HAAAAA!!!!

Well, it looks like I was writing about Spartan life ... and guess what?!  Hasn't changed!  So I did 1.5 Spartan Sprints this year ... 1.5?! you say???  Why yes, my sweetie ... 1.5.  How does that happen?

ME!

I was too eager to get going on the NY Tri-State Sprint (June 1) and I ended up getting lost (before you judge me LOL ... hear me out, the early competitive heats ripped down the signs and that's why I got lost!) and I took the wrong path and ended up completing miles 1 & 4 and skipping out on 2 & 3.  Sigh ... such is my life ... all that work and nothing ... do I even deserve that medal?!  Probably not, but that's OK i'm still keeping it HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!

So then I recently completed (no, I didn't get lost this time, thanks to my wonderful and beautiful friend Nelly) the Pennsylvania Sprint (July 13), which according to rumors, is supposed to be the hardest sprint ... they weren't kidding.  I picked up that 25lb sand bag, turned the corner to head up the hill and I think I sprained my neck looking UP!  That's how friggin' steep this bad boy was ... I think I wilted a little seeing it, OK, alot.  That's not the point.  The point is I put my big girl panties on and huffed it up ... I didn't stop though, because I knew if I stopped at any point, I was DONE.  It was do or DIE.

It was an awesome experience, one that I hope to have again in 2014 along with the NY Sprint, already signed up for that one LOL.  I'm finishing that one in 2014, that's for sure!  I'm going for time next year, so let the training begin!  Speaking of training ... the SUPER SPARTAN (September 7) is my next race.  11miles, 30+ obstacles ... no fear, no hesitation, just DO IT!!!!

Met a ton of people as crazy as me HAHA!  We're all gonna suffer together, should be a good time.  I think i'm gonna start blogging about my training ... this blog just keeps changing, LOL.  It is whatever I want it to be.  6.5 weeks until the SUPER.  Started training today (coz I threw my back out on Monday).

AROOOOO!!!!!!!!!!

Tuesday, June 5, 2012

Oops...

Is it seriously June 5, 2012 already?!  I'm so bad, I haven't blogged in HOW long?  Goodness.  The worst part is Mike keeps telling me I haven't and I keep saying "I know, I'm gonna get to it .... soon." LOL.  Soon turned into OVER a year later.  Time just goes by too fast.

What's new you ask?

Starting January 2012 I picked up my training, started doing a new workout called TRX/Kettlebells.  Best. Workout. EVER.  Love it. (Thanks Alex!) Then I started doing these things called Spartan WODs or Workouts of the Day, then I discovered minimalist running shoes (shout outs to New Balance Minimus Trail Running Shoes!  Thank you for fixing my gait!  I went from lots of knee pain, to running and running with NO knee pain, unbelievable). 

Was supposed to run in a recent Spartan Sprint in Tuxedo Ridge, NY, as a replacement for an injured person on the NYSC team but found out a day before that apparently they don't accept replacements or transfer registrations for insurance reasons.  Boo.  But now, I know what i'm up against and I know what I should be training for (monkey bars here I come, woohoo! lol!). 

I've been to a TON of new places (food-wise) with Mike.  I need to post those ... OMG, i'm just perpetually behind in every aspect of my life.  It is what it is.  Back to the slave post I go for now ... I should be posting something soon, it was just a matter of getting back on the bike, or so they say ...

Friday, July 8, 2011

The Redhead

SATURDAY - MARCH 12, 2011 (DINNER)

The Redhead

349 E. 13th Street (b/w 1st & 2nd Aves)
New York, New York 10003
212-533-6212

website: http://www.theredheadnyc.com/


yelp: 4 stars
menupages: 4 stars
(new feature! I will start putting up yelp and menupages reviews)


Mike and I came here because we had heard so much about the fried chicken and it was definitely time to try it out!


WHAT WE ORDERED:






(The Fried Chicken!)



You didn't really expect us to order anything else when we came here specifically for the fried chicken right??? LOL! But let me tell you, I am a fried chicken fan and I ADORE this fried chicken! The breading on the outside is crispy but not heavy, it's not greasy which I have NO clue how they manage to pull off, but it's perfectly crispy, not too salty (perfectly seasoned) and not greasy... WIN!!!!



The salad beneath the chicken was a pear salad and it was just perfectly tossed with a very light lemon vinaigrette, perfection. This is not to diminish the poor little cornbread in the corner who seems meek in comparison to the rest of the plate, but do not be deceived by its small and demure stature, the taste packs a wollop! Moist, not chewy and not too sweet, very well done! =) Mike and I cleaned our plates, which is obviously an indicator of how much we loved the food!

If you're looking for a really good fried chicken that won't make you feel like heartburn is on the horizon, definitely visit the redhead. Be forewarned, they do not take reservations so if you don't like to wait, get there early or late or get ready to hunker down and wait. If you do decide to wait they have a great beer selection and some great appetizers, the bacon peanut brittle is a very good "to share" starter. Also, though I'm sure this is clear, it's not Popeyes (though I have nothing but LOVE for popeyes!) or KFC priced either, the fried chicken is $18 per plate, but worth every penny. Either way, I would definitely go back for the fried chicken and maybe to even try their other menu items. The staff was very attentive and friendly as well though I don't think I could say the same for the table of roustabouts sitting next to us, obnoxious.



Next on my fried chicken bucket list - Buttermilk Channel and Momofuku =)

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